Have You Experienced Abuse? | One Word | Cut

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We talked about abuse with people who were kicked out of their homes as teens.

Small questions have powerful effects when they go viral. Cut spreads stories for fun, for serious, and for real– bringing the internet together one awkward moment at a time.

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MIDOGALI
MIDOGALI
6 дней назад
Cut sucks normally but good for them for bringing to light that so, so many abusers are FEMALE!
K
K
1 месяц назад
We're so many siblings of pain,too many😩
Amisha Gugnani
Amisha Gugnani
1 месяц назад
Abuse is life altering. Leave the abuser as fast as you can.
Kalie McManus
Kalie McManus
1 месяц назад
i really really respect the guy admitting that he was also an abuser.
yoshi tink
yoshi tink
3 месяца назад
Lord help us.
Isabella Sims
Isabella Sims
5 месяцев назад
They should do the word rape for men and women
qipperoo
qipperoo
5 месяцев назад
To whoever relates to this...

I am so, so sorry. You did not deserve it.
You deserve happiness and peace.

You are so loved.
{• Päštėł Škïttłė •}
{• Päštėł Škïttłė •}
5 месяцев назад
*this is so hard to talk about*
kleines Tännchen
kleines Tännchen
6 месяцев назад
I am scarred in some ways that abuse will affect my life forever...

I was or still am emotional abused by both my parents. I was attending the same school which my father worked for and although he wasn't my teacher he would always put me down for not being good enough or having better marks or me not better representing the perfect hardworking, sweet teachersdaughter in front of his colleagues. I was never anything less than a nice and ambitious pupil, but it meant nothing to him.

I then developed an eating disorder with 13 because of all the stress and pressure he has been putting me under and although I am the most healthiest I have been for a very long time right now, it caused just even more trouble and was a yearlong fight against this illness. I have been in therapy for 6 years, I've developed other mental illnesses such as depression and anxiety along the way which affect me in every decision I have to make today. It's really hard getting your life together if your being afraid of not being good enough at anything, studying, work, relationships, life in general.

There are always allegations against me even now whenever I'm at home and that's often, I just can't do anything right in their eyes, I am a big disappointment for them and they always accuse me of not being thankful for all the things they did and do to support me. My emotions, especially my huge anxiety is not taking seriously and in the opinion of my parents just an lame excuse of me for being lazy and not getting things together or/and started.

And up to this day this harsh and emotional draining form of abusive communication affects how I view discussions with my partner. He is the most humble, supporting, loving and understanding partner I could wish for, but whenever we fight over sth or have different opinions about sth I always expect alligations against me and provocation in his way to talk. And that triggers me hard. I get to emotional, I take things far to persona farl to quick and than I can't talk to him any further without the feeling of getting hurt and that drains the very important way of communication you should have with your loved one...

It's really hard working on those behavioral patterns and breaking them down to healthier ones, but it is very important as I don't wanna risk losing my relationship which alongside brings me so much peace and love for the first time in my life..
Hopefully Sunshine
Hopefully Sunshine
6 месяцев назад
2:27. I've had that, too. Blamed for my parents divorce, blamed for my father's manipulative suicide attempt, insults, et cetera.
taylormxrie
taylormxrie
6 месяцев назад
Verbal abuse is still abuse.
Sharkie_Bait97
Sharkie_Bait97
7 месяцев назад
I was in my first relationship at 16 and it was a long distance relationship and we would talk, text and Skype all the time and his was great but as time went on he started showing his true colors. I would get yelled at and brought down if I did or didn't do something that he wanted me to do. He would call me names if I was making plans to hang out with my friends so I started hanging out with them less. I tried ending it but he threatened to kill himself with his shotgun if I ever left him and was beyond paranoid if I didn't text him back right away. I finally couldn't do it anymore and broke up with him, told him if he contacts me I'll call the cops and either changed or deleted my social media and phone number.

It wasn't until last year when I went to a meeting at college to spread awareness about abuse and sexual assault. I realized that at the time I was being mentally abused and I feel that if we weren't long distance that he would have been physically abusive too.
Rosa Frederiksen
Rosa Frederiksen
7 месяцев назад
Cut: Have you ever experienced abuse?


Me: Sitting in a room in a domestic violence shelter rn
Lauren H
Lauren H
7 месяцев назад
Um the guy in the backwards hat really do be looking like Johnny depp wen he played Willy wonka
babymoonlight /
babymoonlight /
7 месяцев назад
I was severely abused by my mom as was my father. I was fortunate enough to move out at 18 and also have a restraining order against my mom. I’m 23 now, a lot has happened in my life since then....but thank god, I was finally able to help my father getting out of there who I love dearly. To anyone reading this whos a trauma victim, please keep going...I promise it’s all gonna be alright🤍 life has a weird way of working out.
Ashley Long
Ashley Long
7 месяцев назад
I experienced a lot of abuse and I try not to think about it a lot. It’s weird to me how many people abused me and it makes me feel crazy sometimes because how could so many people abuse one person in a family? I was sexually abused by a father figure for 8 years, my birth mother was emotionally neglectful for most of my life, my step dad was physically abusive, but the worst of it was when I lived with my grandparents. I lived with them in high school and they were emotionally abusive and manipulative. They turned me into a different person. The other things were much easier to move past because of the support system I had, but what they did really changed how my brain works. I try to forgive people, but they’re the hardest to forgive because no matter what I say to them, I’m always wrong.
PINK Flamingo
PINK Flamingo
7 месяцев назад
"abuse"
Asians: belt , sandle , sugar cane 0_0
blake carson
blake carson
7 месяцев назад
sending love to everyone in this
ekavi
ekavi
7 месяцев назад
Verbal abuse is also very traumatic. Cursing, shouting and verbal aggression have more impact than the affection of love parents/partner/siblings show you.
rob stone
rob stone
7 месяцев назад
I'm in a abusive home rn so I know where these people are coming from.
Primals _
Primals _
7 месяцев назад
Respect the Marilyn MANSON shirt🤘
guccigucci456
guccigucci456
7 месяцев назад
It sucks when people think you're abuser is this great person and in the end no one helps you out. I was abused by my mother growing up and the only person that that ever told her she was wrong died last week. It's crazy to think that now there is no one in my life that cares.
Nadeshda N
Nadeshda N
7 месяцев назад
I wasn't exactly "kicked out", but I left home at 16 when my mother came into my room one day and said "You're going to your grandfather's house, your flight leaves tomorrow." 6 years later and I haven't seen her or my siblings once.
Ella Skills
Ella Skills
7 месяцев назад
Sending love to everyone out there especially in a period like this. You're loved and important ❤️❤️❤️
Patricia the Capricorn ascendant
Patricia the Capricorn ascendant
7 месяцев назад
My mother was my first experience of having a abusive relationship.
Amita Hanad
Amita Hanad
7 месяцев назад
I was abused by my mother and still am
kunjan trivedi
kunjan trivedi
7 месяцев назад
The fist guy was also in “kids meet homeless “ series
LeLe Mclaurin
LeLe Mclaurin
7 месяцев назад
I'm so proud of the ones that were kicked out of the house. I took the abuse i got here at home because i was afraid to be out on the street bc i didn't know what I would do. and then i went off to college and everything was fine but now that we have to quarantine somewhere, i had to come back here. and idk its just after feeling more like i could do something with my life and beginning to feel happy for once, I'm back here and I've fallen into a deep depression again and going back to all of my old unhealthy habits... Idk how many times Ive been told to just kill myself because it'll make everyone else's lives so much easier, and that if im not happy that committing suicide will always be an option that's available, and that I'm not wanted. so idk Its just cool to see people that were strong enough to do well for themselves and even just be alive in such an unfortunate situation...
Lilly Rose
Lilly Rose
7 месяцев назад
When she said “I knew she was wrong but it still hurt” it’s so true.... I was extremely abused by my mom growing up and even though I know she was wrong- I still hear the words she called me and my grandma too because my grandma was very abusive too but she also came from extreme abuse... so it’s been just repeated generational cycles
Heaven Green
Heaven Green
7 месяцев назад
Even when you know what someone is saying isn’t true it still hurts and that makes it worse because it feels like its nothing I can overcome
hiwelcometoarianators
hiwelcometoarianators
7 месяцев назад
ive been abused for 4 years and i understand their pain. no one should ever go through this. its truly horrible.
amit b Kalra
amit b Kalra
7 месяцев назад
Again, this feels like a video you've watched before ! 🤷😂
Anya Pearl
Anya Pearl
7 месяцев назад
I was abused by my best friend growing up. I’m still learning what a healthy friendship looks like.
Robyn Kingsley
Robyn Kingsley
7 месяцев назад
My abuse started when I was about 9 or 10 my stepdad would yell at me and push my door open. I was never allowed to close my door, I always got dressed in the bathroom and I was not allowed to eat 5 hours before dinner, not even snacks. He would yell at me when I ate, so I became anorexic and just completely stopped eating. He was an alcoholic. He would always choose my younger brother over me because he was his actual son. But eventually when I turned 14 my mom divorced him and my older brother, my mom and I moved out. My younger brother would still go visit his dad. But I’m almost 16 now and very sensitive about the situation because it hurt me a lot and I will often get flashbacks of the situation.
ella paige
ella paige
7 месяцев назад
“she said it to my face that everything that was going wrong in her life was because of me” ... “mother” of the year award
Mia Evans
Mia Evans
7 месяцев назад
My mom is a trauma therapist and I just want to say if there's anything I've learned it's that therapy is something literally everyone on this earth needs. It is nothing to be ashamed of, and if you are able to work through your traumas they can give you so much experience and life knowledge. It's pretty commonly said that the amount of trauma you experience, if worked out correctly, can award you the same amount of wisdom. You can get healed, you are stronger because of it.
ella paige
ella paige
7 месяцев назад
i don’t know what it is but the man with the beard gives me a good vibe
Shumaila Kidwai
Shumaila Kidwai
7 месяцев назад
I’ve been part of abuse recently
Ryan Coles
Ryan Coles
7 месяцев назад
you don’t have to read all of this if you don’t want to but..my father tried to become the superhero in my life and try to “save me” from a “bad road” that i was going my mother had been struggling with the bills and since my father was the most financially stable out of all of my other siblings (who i lived) withs fathers..i get there a brand new state he tried to paint a picture that everything was gonna be perfect and he was gonna teach me how to be a “man” but it never worked like that...my father is a mental and a physical abuser as much as it pains me to say this but it’s a harsh reality it’s hard to believe that someone who you can call father be your worst enemy in your life it was always something every single day it was something new and i grew hatred for him ...then one day mind you i had been there for 6 months and tension is still brewing within everyone in the house then my father tries to pick at me and he puts me in a headlock and tried to choke me out my life flashed..i tried my best to fight him off and fight him back but all he did was continue to beat on me...why did i deserve that..he ended up kicking me out of the house and i had to leave the state again to live with my grandma on my moms side...nothing has been the same since then...and if father if somehow you read this i hope you suffer and feel the pain and the depression tht i’ve felt ever since stepping into to that hell hole that was called a “house”....i hope you burn in hell. god bless
HOUSTON_GOON HOAGIE
HOUSTON_GOON HOAGIE
7 месяцев назад
I dont get abused i abused the abuser hop off my level.
b1njjj95
b1njjj95
7 месяцев назад
Abuse is so traumatizing and can take on so many different forms. It's scary. Kudos to all these brave people for coming forward and sharing their stories. That must have taken a lot of courage.
Vannah Rose
Vannah Rose
7 месяцев назад
His Marilyn Manson shirttt
yikes man
yikes man
7 месяцев назад
I lived with my severely mentally ill mother for a year when I was 5 years old. My mom promised a life full of happiness but that obviously went wrong. When I was there I was severely neglected and smelled like an astray all the time, never took a bath and never ate a cooked meal. I was left with my older sister in my room and I was never allowed to go out of my room without permission. I barely used the bathroom because my mom was always in there talking with her friends for hours and smoking in the bathroom. I never went to school either, even though I was enrolled. officers knocked left and right on our doors since I was never at school but my mom said for us to be quiet so they can leave. They never checked on us again after the 3rd time. My deadbeat dad left me and my sister with my mom one month into the trip because he “couldn’t take it” (he’s done this in the past when I was abandoned and left by mom and dad with my grandparents) I have alot more but hopefully people don’t go what I went through.. I now live with my grandparents if anyones wondering-
shiiiet
shiiiet
7 месяцев назад
I can’t figure out if I was or not. I don’t really know if I should claim that word if others face clearly worse abuse. I know “everyone’s different” but I really can’t tell. How do I figure out if what I experienced was abuse or not ?
Sadereia Zeno
Sadereia Zeno
7 месяцев назад
I'm not really sure if this counts as abuse but it made me realize that what my cousins did wasn't okay and I still think about it from time to time. One day I was at my grandmother's house for like a family fun day and all my older cousins were outside playing and my other cousin and I decided to go out and play with them as well. Keep in mind we were the youngest of the group at the time everyone was like maybe 8 or 9 years older then us and I was about 5 or 6 he was was about 7 or 8. My older cousins decided that him and I should play what they called "playing house" and they took us behind these big bushes and told us to pretend like we were getting married and basically made us kiss and things. I didn't know at the time that what they made us do wasn't right but as I got older I always felt uncomfortable around them and always wondered if they ever remembered what they told us to do that day.
Carmen V
Carmen V
7 месяцев назад
Petition to have everyone take some kind of test before they can have kids
Brandon George
Brandon George
7 месяцев назад
This is so sad. The fact people’s parents kick them out for having DIFFERENT VIEWS ... heart breaking.
sarah !
sarah !
7 месяцев назад
i would love to see a series of videos similar to this about runaways. kids who ran away from home and either are now in contact with their family again or not. i think that’d be quite interesting
Sunshine
Sunshine
7 месяцев назад
I know my step mom doesn’t intentionally abuse me, but she distances herself from me to the point that it takes a huge toll on my mental health. She hasn’t talked to me in about a month because I won’t go to Job Corps, I want to continue with college. The only thing I am worried about is my dad, I don’t want him to be hurt or anything by it. I just want him to be happy. I wish I had her in my life and I wish that she’d ask me how I’m doing because I’m sick. But she won’t. She just ignores me and it hurts like hell when I need a mom. When I do go around her, she’s not happy to see me. I’m not into drugs or alcohol but I didn’t do well in school and never really took her advice. I can just tell when she doesn’t want me around and that’s when I see her. My real mother was an addict to cocaine, and my dad came and rescued me from her when I was 9. She’s been there for me a little bit over the years but not much. I just miss my step mom. I feel alone and I wish that she would understand me but she doesn’t at all. She also blamed their “talking about divorce” on me, when in reality if someone is divorcing or is talking about it, they need to work on the issues and not blame it on their kid. It hurts, I’m in a deep depression and I miss her so so so much, I’m crying as I write this. I hope they won’t get a divorce either but I just wish that she hugged me and came to see me. I had a dream about a month ago that she came and told me she’s sorry and hugged me and that hug is what I forever needed. But that won’t happen. I get so jealous of my boyfriend who has a wonderful mom who checks in on him every day. It hurts. It crushes me.